I’ve got questions…

Recently, in another forum, I was taken to task for comments about a motorcycle fatality that, I felt, was the result of plain, old-fashioned stupidity on the part of the motorcyclist. The basics of the story: Damien Smith, 26, died from head injuries sustained when when he flew over the handlebars of his Harley Davidson while attempting to stand on the seat. He was not wearing a helmet and the stunt was performed on a public street. He left a wife and three children. The full story is here.

“He had a little bit of a wild streak in him - that’s what done him in,” said Tim “Uncle Joe” Smith, Damien’s uncle. “He’d wanted that motorcycle for 10 years. After he bought that motorcycle, he had that smile on his face every day. We all know he made a mistake on what he was doing. Everybody liked Damien; he’s a good man.”

More from Uncle Joe: “The world needs more people like him. He was a good friend to people. He did everything he could for his kids. They were his life. Something to happen to a kid like this isn’t right.”

Sherrie Davis, Damien’s mother said “He started talking about this bike and he had to have it. He was a little bit of a daredevil. This was freak accident.”

It was that last sentence that stopped me cold. “This was a freak accident.” What? This was NOT a freak accident. This was not an accident at all. This was the result of stupidity. Even his own family says that Damien had “a wild streak” and that he “was a little bit of a daredevil.”

So, why was I taken to task for commenting that this guy was a moron? Someone felt that I should not be ticked off by this story because the media had finally portrayed a motorcyclist in a positive way (”He’s a good man.”) I don’t see anything positive here. Just the same old reckless motorcyclist dies attempting a stupid stunt and oh, he wasn’t wearing a helmet. More grist for the helmet law proponents and those who want to continue treating motorcyclists like second-class motorists.

I also took some heat for suggesting that Damien, as a “good man”, should have considered his responsibilities to his wife and three children before he did the “Indian Larry” trick. Some felt that perhaps I was being a bit righteous about it and suggested that perhaps racers are stupid too because they could die. Or any motorcyclist for that matter; we are at greater risk after all.

Racers are not stupid. Neither are most motorcyclists. Most, unlike Damien Smith, do everything in their power to minimize their risk and do not attempt stunts on public streets nor without safety gear. Still, it got me thinking. What about my family and my responsibilities. What steps do I, because I choose to ride, need to take to assure that my responsibilities are fulfilled? Do I need to do more than a non-rider because I choose to assume greater risks? What obligations, moral, ethical or otherwise, do I assume because I choose to ride?

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It is a sad story, especially for what was left behind. Having two daughters of my own, its not easy to think about.

Now allow me to take the baton. This guy is an absolute moron. This was not a freak accident. I have said in the past that I appreciate the stuntas for providing the used bike parts market with an ample supply (NOTE: I would rather not see the dumb asses die though).

I hate to go here, but these folks refuse to award the reaponsibility to the rider. The quotes dance aorund blaming the motorcycle - an inanimate object. Its similar to blaming guns for murder, blaming ice cream spoons for Rosie O’Donnell being fat, or blaming McDonalds for serving coffee that is ‘too hot’.

There is a difference between living with fate (the every day risk of death) and making it happen. Why this hits home, is that all of us look bad. This gives meaning to the medical term donorcycles.

There is a fine line between making a point and kicking a guy when he’s down…or dead. In this case, “there is no there, there”.

This was stupid.

Darwin would be proud.

Comment by angrybob | October 18th, 2005 8:15 pm | Permalink

That’s a good question. There’s no doubt he was acting recklessly and took too much risk. But it’s also true that we, riders, put the limit of ‘acceptable risk’ higher than other people. The line between ‘living with fate (the every day risk of death) and making it happen’.
I’m the father of 2 (3 and 9 years old) and choose to commute by bike everyday to work. As competent and aware as I may be, the risk of a fatal accident is higher than if I chose to commute by public transports or by car. Thus the risk for my kids to grow up without their father is higher. Is it an acceptable risk ? I’ve answered yes, because a) I love it, b) It saves 1 hour a day I can spend with my family. But, honestly and selfishly, mostly a)… Am I right ? I don’t know, because, shall I die in a crash, I, as a direct consequence of my choice to engage in a dangerous activity, would have created 2 orphans.
I sometimes ride with my 9 years old boy. Am I responsible to do this ? We both enjoy it and I’am extra cautious, but, face it, It’s dangerous also.
I love to ski, so does my wife and my boy. He wears a helmet, I don’t. Am I responsible ?

Bottom line of this incoherent comment, my reponsability is probably to live a full life that makes me smile and to share good things with my kids…

Comment by philippe | October 19th, 2005 2:49 am | Permalink

One of the beauties of life (and life in a “free” society) is the ability to choose the risk we are willing to accept, but we must also live (or not) with the consequences of our actions. You can say it’s tragic when kids have to grow up without a parent, but I say Damien’s kids may be better off without his “bad” example, which I’m sure extended into other areas of his life. We could all die tomorrow from various choices about lifestyle, diet, geography (can you say New Orleans or Pakistan) or just happenstance (wrong place, wrong time, criminal with a gun).

Live life, do the things you love, but do them with the most common sense approach to risk minimization, then let the chips fall where they may!

Comment by rhino | October 19th, 2005 7:59 am | Permalink

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